Take the soft option!
Many newbie swingers opt for this type of swinging when they first get into the scene as it is a good way to test the water and for all parties to see whether they enjoy the events and most importantly it can test the old green eyed monster!
But what is soft swinging?
When swingers put on a profile that they are only into soft swaps they basically mean that they will swap partners (often only same room) for general foreplay but no full on sexual intercourse. Sometimes they will also quantify matter by stating that “we may full swap if the situation feels right” but there are no guarantees to it is best to ensure all those involved in the meet know you only want soft swapping.
Like ‘em big, fat and horny?
There is a name for men who like to be with fat women the fetish is called “macrophile” but this is the extreme and more likely to be those who are also called feeders rather than those men (or women) who like BBW sex.
Now BBW itself stands for Big Beautiful Women, although often it is misused for big Breasted women – now that can be the case as well but for those swingers interested in BBWs it will be that they are all over larger ladies, generally any female of a size 18+ is considered a chubby chick and in porn there are many others terms for them!
Modern day swinging is about more than just the sexual acts!
Online Instant Messaging (IM) is a popular and important way for swingers to communicate via their computers. Whether you want to use it to flirt with a new contact, find out where tonight’s local action is or to ask questions if you are a newbie instant messaging is a helpful tool.
One you have set up your own personal swinger profile with details about your sexual preferences when someone searches for contacts and you are a match and shown in the results, if you are online at the time they can click to ask for a chat there and then! Alternatively you can browse the site and look for your swingers match to interact with.
So, we are here to help you get to grips with all dogging terms, “rules” and also to help you to locate doggers from your area!
Recently in the media there has been a lot of mentions about dogging but many people don’t know exactly what it entails. What they do know is that it has become very popular in the UK particularly with people who are part of online adult communities and that it involves getting a thrill from having sex in a semi-public place.
First things first, what is dogging?
Dogging is a general term that describes outdoor sexual activities, which can be anything from having anonymous sex with strangers for example in a secluded car park, to exhibitionists couples putting on a sex show on a picnic table in the open air.
Think women don’t sit around fantasising about naughty things? Think again!
Women truly are expert when it comes to dreaming up the horniest fantasies and very often they don’t just limit themselves to the traditional.
We have found that the top 10 female fantasies cover everything from threesomes to more extreme fetishes. Plus you may be surprised to know that many women want to do more than just fantasise. Many women hope their men will fulfil their sex fantasies and thus often turn to swingers contacts sites.
Top ten female fantasies:
Swingers website don’t work FACT…
For some people swingers personals website really don’t work – you maybe a little surprised that on a UK swingers website we are saying something like this but it is a fact however the reason they don’t work, more often than not, is nothing to do with the personals site and much more to do the members themselves!
Most decent swingers websites will offer all the tools needed to create a good personal ad/profile and be a site where you can interact with other members but so often people don’t put the effort into their profiles and also don’t mix with others. After all you have to remember swingers sites offer the tools and places to meet online but YOU still have to put the effort in and make it work for you.
